Living These Days

Category: Public Square

  • Render unto Caesar

    We live in treacherous times. Actually, I suspect, all times are treacherous if we’re paying attention. Choose God or choose empire.

    When Jesus’ enemies ask whether it is lawful to pay taxes, Jesus knows they are trying to trap him into speaking against a primary mechanism of the Roman regime: Taxes.

    He asks to see a coin, which bears the image of the emperor. Then, the famous answer: Render unto Caesar that which is Caesar’s, and unto God, that which is God’s.”

    It’s a two-faced answer, depending on interpretation. We, of course, believe that everything is God’s. Our daily steps and interactions, our treatment of one another, our being a faithful member of the family of God. Oh, and paying taxes, too.

    Following Jesus is not a free pass to ignore rules that help sustain living as a community, many of which govern behavior mandated in the Ten Commandments. No killing, lying, stealing, and so on.

    So, love God, pay your taxes, uphold the Ten Commandments. And, here’s another: Vote, which is how we change things whenever specific leaders get out of hand.

    It’s a process that offers us the best hope possible. We don’t even need to remove any heads from our legal tender.

  • A detour to lesser concerns 

    In a world of war and death and hunger and injustice. In a world where we grapple almost everyday with democracy on the brink of—what—extinction? 

    Truthfully, sometimes I long for a little escape. Something trivial, perhaps, or just something of no lasting concern.

    So, I want us to take a little dive into something that mystifies me—but at the end of the day is of little to no consequence.

    I’ve noticed what I believe to be an increase in a couple of unusual fashion choices (mostly) by women and older girls.

    We all know that hem lines go up or down every decade or so. The legs of women’s pants go from narrow to flared and everything in between. Makeup to be noticed as makeup, to makeup not to be noticed.

    But there are a couple of current popular body amendments that I don’t understand.

    Granted, this comes from someone of the older persuasion, as well as from someone who has never been cool. Foolhardy, maybe, but never cool.

    Have you noticed an increasing number of older girls and women paying for 1.) enlarged lips; and/or 2. enlarged buttocks.

    God did not bless me with full lips. But I was convinced awhile back to have my lips colored permanently (really about six months). I’m lazy and I was drawn to the idea of having a permanent makeup look. But I’m over that now. Not in my budget, one; and, two, not something I care to do again.

    Like other fads, big lips and big tushes will likely move over for something else. 

    I feel the need to say that never before in my lifetime have I known anyone who wanted a bigger behind. 

    And I’m guessing that dumping them once you’re tired of them might be a bit more complicated than lowering or raising a hemline. What do you think?

    Mary Patricia Trainor

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    Drowning in commitment?

    Was he just born bad? I doubt it.

    Did he always intend to use his dog rescue operation as a cover so he could shoot, kill, and bury a bunch of dogs, then hide them in mass graves, away from public view? I doubt it.

    A heart-breaking story is still developing in Northern California, where officials continue their sweeping investigation of a rescue—ironically listed as a no-kill rescue—and its owner. Incidentally, when I started this blog entry the rescue and its owner were named. My guess is, conditions became volatile, and safety became a concern, so now officials are dealing with it anonymously.

    I’ll admit that the mistreatment of animals is something I can only read about sideways. It’s too painful for a square-on look.

    So, I have to leave the story, the case, to braver people, investigators, who have their hands full with the many  avenues of abuse that allegedly were rooted at this rescue.

    ***

    What’s left for me, then? For you?

    Let’s look at this as a cautionary tale. Call it, “When love is not enough.”

    God knows, and we do, too, that any form of animal welfare work is heartbreaking. It wears people down. Eventually cuts off how much their hearts can feel. Relentlessly. One horrifying case after another. Abandonment after neglect. Dumping. Starvation. Untreated illness.

    In the dog and cat rescue world, even the good guys and gals can fall apart when their network of support dwindles.

    Most likely we’ve read about dog and cat hoarding situations. An old man, an old woman, cooped up with too many animals. Things got away from them. They can no longer manage the endless repetition. The weight of the work carries on, but they no longer can. Animals die. Neighbors eventually call authorities.

    Love has become a burden. Money is in short supply. Outside help dries up. The need is endless. And, then, there you are, the very picture of what you gave your life to prevent.

    It’s a common enough trajectory for us to notice. And there are things we can do to help.

    If you’re in this work and nearing the overwhelmed point, please reach out.

    Comment on this blog and I will follow through.

    Also, please check out the article, When Love is Not Enough. Resources are mentioned there. Link here.

    Mary Patricia Trainor

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    Janky vs.The Code vs. The Flu

    This morning, I was quickly overtaken by three stories:

    ● Michele Obama receiving criticism for describing current state of affairs as a “janky” period?

    ● Trump’s request to have the Nuclear Code?

    ● And, learning today the Trump administration is stopping mandatory flu vaccines for the U.S. military?

    As regards Michelle Obama’s remark, I also find everything coming out of Washington these days to be “janky.”

    True, I had to look up the word. But it’s more or less what I would imagine: 

    From Google: “It often implies that an object is shaky, faulty, or a ‘cobbled together, makeshift solution. Common examples include broken technology, rundown cars, or poor-quality, unreliable items. Synonyms include shoddy, sketchy, junky, shaky, or flimsy.”

    Now, thanks to Michelle Obama, I have a nifty, new word to describe current affairs.

    Moving on, as a child of the Cold War era, nothing can be more  horrifying than The Code falling into the President’s hands—any president. But especially this president and his janky administration.

    Moving on to flu  vaccines. Secretary Hegseth says the removal of mandated vaccines is a means of democratizing the individual military experience.

    Is that really what we need for the military? Sure, if there’s medical reason to forgo the shot, I’m sure there’s always been provision for an exception there.

    So what is it the secretary has really accomplished?

    Janky, janky , janky.

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    There comes a time…

    There comes a time when we cannot deny that Donald Trump is unfit to serve this country.

    He isn’t our crazy Uncle Donnie who the family rolls out at special events. 

    The whole family is on alert and, at the first hint of trouble, Uncle Donnie is led away, smiling and waving with his free arm.

    Mostly, this Uncle Donnie is harmless, though definitely someone capable of bringing shame at any moment.

    But whatever “Uncle Donnie” has done that harms those he theoretically cares about, it doesn’t begin to touch the dangerous, embarrassing, dishonorable, mean-spirited antics of the other Donnie, you know, the one in the White House.

    I don’t know if any remnants remain of the USA’s better days as the good guys and gals. But we have prayed that the President’s better angels would lead him to the right things.

    Well, I fear the better angels are fighting an uphill battle against greed, wealth, mistreatment of people, illness, and starting a war with provocation or congressional approval.

    And now, he apparently thinks he is God. What can we do?

    As a private citizen, neither you nor I can launch the two remedies available under the law: The 25th Amendment, and Impeachment.

    But we can create a clamor so thunderous it cannot be denied.

    If you do not believe how out of touch with reality this Uncle Donnie is, consider the picture he posted and has since taken down: Him as Jesus, or a Jesus wannabe, hovering over a man’s hospital bed.

    That is a serious distortion of reality. We all know it. But does he? That is the really worrisome concern.

    There comes a time. I think it has arrived. 

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    Renewal of Vows

    Today, a good number of people ordained in the Episcopal Church will head to Phoenix for the Renewal of Vows service. I will be among them.

    The service is paired with receiving Holy Oils blessed by the Bishop for use in churches throughout the coming year.

    This is not only a local event. Across the country, deacons, priests, bishops attend such a service annually, many of those services traditionally occurring on the Tuesday in Holy Week. This year, that falls on March 31.

    This is serious business, yet not grim. It is a joyous opportunity to remember not only our day of ordination, when promises were made, but also the intervening years of serving God’s people, both when it has been uplifting and also when it has borne the weight of tears. 

    This service we are called to provide is a twenty-four-seven calling. Over time and as the new wears off, we may find our spirit threatened.

    But then we receive the Holy Week call to renew the vows made at our ordaining and we happily respond as we did then: I will.

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    Along the Iditarod Trail

    Tales of a preeminent sled dog race can either celebrate or denigrate this long-standing Alaska event.

    As a longtime dog lover, I can see this annual event two ways. A celebration of the dog-human relationship, or a misuse of the trust dogs so easily invest in us.

    Either way, I can’t turn away from a couple of amazing accounts nestled in history books.

    First, some news from the 2026 race that ended on March 17, when Jessie Holmes won his second consecutive Iditarod Trail Sled Dog Race in Nome, Alaska. The former reality TV star completed the roughly 1,000-mile course in nine days, seven hours, and 32 minutes. As this year’s winner, Holmes received an $80,000 prize.

    Now for a couple of did-you-knows:

    Saving lives with sleds

    In the 1920s, before vaccines, there were 100,000–200,000 diphtheria cases and 13,000–15,000 deaths in the US each year.

    The risk made its way all the way to Alaska. While a successful serum was available, getting it to Alaska was not always possible.

    The 1925 Great Race of Mercy saw 20 mushers and give or take 150 dogs relay diphtheria antitoxin 674 miles in 5.5 days to save Nome, Alaska, from an outbreak. 

    Facing -50°F temperatures and blizzards, teams led by Togo and Balto delivered the serum, inspiring the annual 1,000-mile Iditarod sled dog race. 

    After a vaccination program was introduced in the late 1940s, cases dropped dramatically.  Today, childhood vaccination rates remain high.

    Yes, poodles on the Iditarod 

    A musher named John Suter had a dream to run the Iditarod with Standard Poodles, and he actually made it happen.  He got his first poodle in 1975 and by 1976 was running local races near Chugiak, Alaska. 

    Suter entered the 1988 Iditarod with standard European poodles on his dogsled team.  He placed 38th out of 52 starters in that 1,100-mile race. 

    And yes — in 1988, Suter appeared on The Tonight Show to talk about his poodle racers. That link is available in YouTube.

    Enjoy the clip here. 

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    Impediments to truth

    Nancy Guthrie is still missing. At least as of noon MST on Tuesday, February 10.

    Along with so many others I pray for a safe conclusion to this event. And soon.

    I can only imagine how this is weighing on the family. From what I can observe, they appear to be holding it together pretty well. But there must be moments of sadness, anger, hope, futility. Family members have been the object of suspicion, at least at the gossip level. That’s the last place anyone should be judged, yet often it’s the first stop we make just trying to find the truth. Whatever that is.

    I was a journalism major in college, later working some fifteen years for daily newspapers. That experience lends credibility to what I believe about the sometimes messy business of reporting the news.

    You’ve got a deadline. You’ve got competition. You’ve got a boss who doesn’t want to be scooped.

    You don’t want to be scooped.

    You want to save your time for rooting out new angles, genuine updates, following law enforcement, following tips, and so on.

    Nothing wrong with any of that. Except. In a race to deadline it’s very tempting to pick up what you’ve already run and slap it in there as background.

    In so doing, it’s really easy to pick up something that was never factual, and you run it yet again.

    There’s a good example from the Guthrie case.

    Early on, news reports agreed that the family was alerted by a church friend when Nancy had not showed up for church Sunday morning, February 1. That was picked up and shared broadly. Why not? 

    The problem is the picture  it created in readers’/viewers’ minds.

    Many accounts since have picked up and run with this version. The problem? Nancy has not attended  in-person church since COVID. Six-plus years ago 

    According to a story published today, the friend was wanting to set the record straight: since COVID, several women gather at another’s home on Sunday mornings to “attend” an online-church from New York. The article said that it is the church Savannah attends.

    Maybe you think, so what? What difference does it make? Here’s how it created a difference for me.

    BTW, I am an ordained Episcopal priest, and have wondered why a church friend would feel it so important to let the family know so quickly that their Mom was a no-show at church. I strongly suspected that some detail was missing.

    What’s factual is that this friend did inform the family. What isn’t factual is that this was connected to a Tucson church. We are still free to attend or not attend a church service in its building. An absence here or there wouldn’t automatically trigger a call to family.

    But a no-show to a friend’s house is a much different situation.

    So my practice is to be suspicious while reading or viewing the news, and if something just doesn’t add up right, call the reporter and check it out. They want it right, also.

    Dear God, we pray for the safe return of Nancy Guthrie, and for peace of heart and mind for her family. Amen.

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    You never know what the day may bring…

    Good or bad, each day unfolds pretty much to our expectations.

    Kids to school.

    Dog to vet.

    Catch the top news, however it is we do that.

    Phone Mom and Dad.

    Text that recipe to a friend.

    Go to a scheduled meeting.

    For the most part, days pass by like that, without surprise, without incident.

    The rhythm is so reliable, it leaves little room for the surprises.

    But the surprises can force their way in anyway.

    You never know what the day may bring.

    It’s a simple sentence that doesn’t require a lot of explaining. Even so, we march on, optimistic, not a care in the world.

    Oh, sure, we know that our next moment might be ripped from us. But intellectually knowing the possibilities of major disruptions does not adequately prepare us for when they come.

    Just read the headlines on a given day, and put yourself in the place of someone who got that bad news.

    Here are a couple of examples, occurrences that nearly take your breath away:

    —My heart goes out to the family of 84-year-old Nancy Guthrie, missing from in Tucson, Arizona.

    —Also to the family of an 18-year-old Northern Arizona University student who is presumed to have died in a fraternity rush activity.

    So, what’s my point?

    Well, since there’s no known way of warding off horrific news, I believe I am left with doing a better job of valuing, not only the great days, but also the mindless days when no harm comes to me or mine. Days when I forget something on my grocery list, or have to circle the block several times to get a parking place; or clean up where my dog peed on the kitchen floor because I didn’t get her out in time.

    Imperfections, for sure, but not tragic, or life-altering, or even memorable.

    So, welcome, ordinary days. I hope to see you for the blessing you are and the treasure you bring to my life.

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    When we can’t accept

    Let the pain out.

    Wring those hands,

    wring them hard.

    The values we claim,

    the rights we expect,

    the freedoms we assume:

    Gone before their work is done?

    Were they ever real?

    Someone said justice is a hypothetical construct, that what passes for justice is a dream granted only to those in power,

    a privilege as beautiful and as rare as a Faberge egg.

    Don’t believe the privilege is gone? Don’t believe justice is rarely just? I didn’t believe it either.

    But then, along came Renee. And I was shocked.

    Then, along came Alex. And my knees gave way.

    I worry that their truth may be the new truth.

    Please, God, let it not be so.

    M.P. Trainor